Monday, November 13, 2017

How do you break up with a friend?


Since I posted this topic on the blog: thoughts on friends growing apart? People had been asking me, How do you actually break up with a friend? I am no life expert but here are some tips on how to eliminate toxic people.


1. Stop Communicating. This is the best way to break up with them. You have to stop texting them back. Stop calling them back. Stop liking their facebook posts or better yet, just block them. You don't have to feel guilty about doing it. You owe no one an explanation.

2. Break it to them gently. If they don't get the first tip then probably you have to give them hints that you don't want them in your life. Let them pick up the bread crumbs of your broken relationship. Again, you don't have to explain yourself.

3. Distance yourself. Stop going to parties where you could potentially meet each other.

4. Straight to the point. At this point you have to tell it to them straight in the face. If they fail to get the clue, then somebody is up for a rude awakening.


Forget their names now, see how better things. Living life that way is so exhausting. Trust me. I know better. I've been there. 40 million times. 

Friday, October 27, 2017

Relapse




I thought I was over this thing. What was I thinking right? Now I have to eat my words and undo my goodbye! Day in and day out. I've been waiting to come write back. So Finally I gave in to this addiction. It felt like torture not to write. I felt like I was just fooling myself for so long. Hahahaha.


For a moment there, I thought I could finally let do. I was just planning to hide it. I thought it wasn't gonna hurt but it did! SO pardon my absence coz I am back!

Thursday, August 31, 2017

Final Goodbye

The past month had been a rollercoaster ride for me. There were highs and extremely low moments. I just only have one life to live and I am living it the best way I know how.

As you could see, I always have my life in public by sharing everything that was going on with me here on the blog and on facebook. I think it has taken its toll on me and I got caught up with it.

I think it is about time to dial back with everything and reflect on what’s really important. I think it’s about time to enjoy life as it is. Not worrying about anything. Not minding if this is gonna look good on instagram and just taste every moment raw and unfiltered.

To all my readers thank you! I have 12 amazing years with you guys. This is it! This is goodbye!